This is basically bitching about my work but it sort of goes for everything else.
A general rule that I was told a while a go is that if you have to say that you are something, you prolly aren't.
This means if you spend all your time saying you are cute... you're not. Saying you're smart? Nope... Saying you're Great? once again that would be a no. It's rough for people to deal with some times but the fact is that for the most part you can't hide who you are, and as Jigga said "you was who you was before you got here." This is not hate, this is not saying that one can not nor should not work to improve, all it basically means is that you need to be about what you are supposedly on instead of talking about it all the damn time. It's like for dudes, you ain't a player cause you say so, you a player if the people say so, or girls talking about how fine they are without a single male anywhere co-signing... Guess what? all the bragging in the world won't make my eyes stop working, we all know what you look like.
Yeah sometimes you have to speak up, let the people know what you are in to, and damn it don't be scared to claim what you believe is rightfully yours, but be careful because the more you try to define yourself by your words instead of your actions, the more prone you are to having someone call bullshit on you, and if you don't have the goods to back up your boasts what good is it?
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