Step your game up...
(**Side note, I think that Mr. Me Too is my favorite song of the summer, I definitely know if I owned a club it would have to get played three times a night because cats be in a rush to trick off loot to this song, but really I feel them, so I cant hate.)
So anyway, my current gripe, since what would I be without gripes, is the extreme proliferation of people out here expecting you to fall for wack game. Now I am not talking about lines, per se just over-all wack game.
for instance, folks that know me know I am not a big relationship dude. In fact I pretty much don't do them, I mean we can chill or whatever, but I am not the type that likes jumping into false commitments. I figure the main reason people cheat is because they just agreed to be exclusive because they thought they were supposed to. I figure we should all be honest for the first few months and admit that in the beginning we are all open to an upgrade. Now folks that know me, know I am pretty upfront about this. I don't run around offering to be your man and carrying on a big time public relationship. In fact I generally tell people that the last girl that I actually officially called my girlfriend was from high school. So what happens next you may ask? well girls will decide that they are "cool" with the set up, roll for a while and then expect me to change my mind. Now some put forth some effort so I don't really have an issue with them, my problem is with the ones who decide that they are going to stress the shit out of me from day one, make me spend a ton of money to their no money, and then not pay any attention to what I am into but expect me to want to settle down. I mean damn, I don't know how that shit works on a dude that is pro relationship but on an anti-relationship dude, you would figure that you would try to impress somebody. I don't know, be low key, cook, juggle, hell if I know I figure you should step it up.
My female friends tell me about dudes that are the same way. They will holla, holla, holla, holla, trying to get you to let your guard down, but once you agree to go out they have honestly come with the first date chicken and xbox thing... Really? Is that how you impress a chick you have to win over? I mean how did we get to the point in society where folks figure that others are under some obligation to take their nasty asses just as they are? What's next people going out without shaving or showering? I mean damn its bad enough what some people wear in the street when they know they have plans with you. I mean damn if we not married yet, don't I at least still merit you trying to be cute? stylish or something?
My people, I need you to fight back, I sit up here and sound crazy sometimes trying to have some standards for a minute cause too many chicks are letting dudes take them out straight from hooping with their boys, and too many dudes are letting girls wear flip flops on the first date to the restaurant. I mean comfort and being yourself has a place in all relationships I guess but you really can't expect somebody to want to sign on for that? It would be like trying to sell a dirty house, we know it won't always look like this but if you are going to ask for this much money you betta try to spruce things up... or as TI said, 'get ya shit together."
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