I was reading a blog where a girl was going on a story about how she ended up at some dudes house with her homegirl. It got late, her girl was on her shit with dude and so she was stuck laying up with this other random cat. He decides to try to hit, and she isn't really interesting but hey she is bored so she rolls with it for a while. To make matters more interesting comments from more than a few girls pretty much went along the lines of "Yeah, I've been there... been boned a few times of shit like that..."
Number 1, this is why dudes hate when they girl be hanging out with that chick that he figures is a bit too loose. I know girls always be like dudes are psycho, but hell naw, boredom is a mutha, we all know this... How we know exactly is the main point or
Number 2, this whole thing made me think about how random shit is and what is basically the problem with late nights and alcohol. Fact of the matter is that 90% of dudes who are more than 50% single and straight, if they are sitting in their apt and there is a not ugly girl there and there has been alcohol, dude is going to try to bone. Not cause he really wants to but cause its there and what else are you really going to do? It's like if someone just randomly gives you a slice of chocolate cake. You may not be hungry, and chocolate cake may not be your favorite, but you're not eating anything else and it is there, so there we go... Of course what we figure will keep us out of trouble is that the girl is not as silly as we are and so if she is not actually feeling, she would shut the shit down... But no, apparently, she will get bored and roll with it, hell even worse she will fake an orgasm or whatever to make dude feel good since she figure that he must be interested in her. Maybe it's just me, but it seems sort of bogus that two people can have sex when neither one of them actually wants to, especially when you realize that if they never talk about the fact that neither of them wanted to do it, they will keep at it for a while so as not to hurt the other persons feelings. So next thing you know, you have wasted three months and have to make some bullshit excuse to break up with someone who you never liked and who never liked you. I mean and that's with the hope that no one ended up pregnant.
There is not really a point to this it just reminds me to try and be proactive lest I stay falling into bullshit...
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